This is Fanny. Fanny lives in sunny Carpinteria, California.

Fanny is old, mostly blind, and she’s got attitude, but Fanny sure knows how to take it easy.

We could all learn a thing or two from Fanny.

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The Umbrella Shop

November 7, 2011

This week Costa and I went umbrella shopping on Granville Island at a local, family-owned store, aptly named The Umbrella Shop.

“Just like Papa made them”, read a giant poster on the wall, next to a life-sized photograph of who I assume was Papa himself, touting one of his original hand-made umbrellas with a smile.

The walls of the shop were lined with row upon row of umbrellas of all sizes in a kaleidoscope of colours of patterns.

“Racks of floral chintz umbrellas, frilly parasols, men’s tie prints, and one-of-a-kind hand painted cottons make the shop a colourful feast for the eyes.” – The Umbrella Shop

Costa chose a medium-sized burgundy umbrella with a dark wooden handle. It felt sturdy and opened with ease.

The friendly man who sold us the umbrella (Papa’s grandson, perhaps?) assured us it would be the strongest umbrella we would ever own – guaranteed to never turn inside out even on the windiest of days. Best of all, the umbrella came with a 2-year warranty – if there are any problems we can simply drop it off at the factory nearby and get it repaired for free.

This experience reminded me how grateful I am for the many opportunities we have to purchase goods and services from people who are passionate about what they have to offer, care about building relationships, pay attention to detail, and who value quality, craftsmanship, and experience above all else.

It’s important to notice when you find a product or company that brings you this kind of satisfaction and pleasure. Here’s what I do when it happens:

1) Say thank you. I tell the company that they’ve made a difference for me and I let them know why. Sometimes I’ll offer to write a testimonial if it would be helpful for them.

2) Show loyalty by continuing to purchase from that company, even if it might be less convenient than shopping for lower quality products and experiences elsewhere. (I recently ordered a set of Mighty Tieton notebooks, only available in the USA, to be delivered to a friend’s house in California whom I will be visiting later this week.)

3) Get rid of the old to make way for the new. I pare down my belongings to make room for more of the good stuff.

4) Show loyalty by sharing my discovery with others.

How do you know when you’ve discovered a gem? What do you do when you know?

 For further reading and discussion on this topic, check out today’s piece by Gwen Bell: What to Do When You Discover the Best

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Feeling Inspired: Bubblegum Toes

October 31, 2011

Last weekend, Kari and I treated ourselves to deliciously lovely pedicures from Stella while the rains fell hard outside. There’s nothing quite like discovering bubblegum coloured toenails every morning when you kick your feet out from under the sheets. It brightens up the rainiest of autumn days.  

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Days at Kaye’s

October 28, 2011

Sunday October 23rd, 5:17pm. I’m sitting on the couch in my sweatpants, feet up on the coffee table, laptop in my lap. My phone buzzes on the table, an incoming text message. “It’s over, around an hour ago. She never came back to the surface after this morning.” The familiar feeling of heaviness, finality, carves [...]

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Feeling Inspired: Meditating Maggie

October 22, 2011

Maggie lives with Sandy (my brother, peeking down from the left) and Kari (his lovely girlfriend). Every time Maggie visits our house she tries to cozy up in my meditation cushions, but she’s just a little bit too big to balance her whole body on top. Usually, she does a few circles, sits down, falls [...]

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The True You Exercise: Core Values & Deepest Dreams

September 26, 2011

“What happens when you give an unspoken wish a place to become a dream come true? How do you gather the courage required to help a new found dream soar?” – Mondo Beyondo This month I’m participating in a fantastic online course called Mondo Beyondo. Mondo Beyondo is all about transforming our deepest dreams (maybe [...]

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Room for two: lessons on successful cohabitation

September 13, 2011

It’s been a few months since the beginning of our cohabitation experiment, and I think Costa and I are starting to get the hang of it. As it turns out, I haven’t had any problems maintaining my personal rituals and finding time for solitude, which I was somewhat concerned about before we moved in together. [...]

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Cohabitation, at last!

May 18, 2011

Big changes are afoot! As I mentioned in my last post, one of the biggest challenges I’ve been facing of late has been in managing a long distance relationship (LDR) with my partner, Costa. I am happy to say that the old LDR has finally (1.5 years later) met it’s demise – Costa will be [...]

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Unconventional gratitude

March 29, 2011

Have you ever considered how easy it is to feel gratitude towards the positive things in our lives (like loving family, delicious food, living in a great city, having a great bike and a wonderful place to live) while it’s incredibly difficult to turn those feelings of gratitude towards the elements of life we dislike [...]

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One change at a time: cutting down our ecological footprints

March 26, 2011

With World Water Day and Earth Hour both happening this week, I’ve been reflecting on the personal actions I’ve made towards cutting down my impact on our planet over the past few years, and looking forward to additional changes I intend to make. While these actions may seem small, it will be the sum of [...]

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